I have seen a lot of blog and forum posts on marriage lately that appear discouraging to single young women, so I wanted to share a few thoughts . . .
It seems that a lot of folks have an idea that if a girl’s over 18 and not married yet, it’s her fault. What I’ve been noticing is a bunch of people saying that girls who aren’t married are A) too picky or B) not trying hard enough to meet “eligible young men.” Although likely true in some circumstances, I don’t believe it to be the norm.
It saddens me to hear so many negative comments regarding why young women are still single. Being single is not an evil!
Young women who state that they are enjoying their singledom and not actively seeking a husband are told that they’re simply not trying hard enough to meet young men.
Enjoying singledom does not mean that we don’t desire to be married. Trust me, sometimes a girl can go out seven days a week, meeting new people, visiting friends, and still not meet anyone marriageable, or at least not anyone who would be a good “fit” for them.
Beautiful Hands,
- Maybe they just picked bad men. Sometimes it's best to be single if we like :)
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ReplyDeletebeing single is not an evil!!
ReplyDeletei agree..!!
(well, sorry for deleting the previous comment, its too emotional..har3!!)
u need to know that being single is the best thing u can enjoy..when u have bf or husband..then u have so much thing u need to do..just enjoy..lets it go by the flow...
ReplyDeletebuts some time we need to ask ourself.." chantek x aku ni"...mottip tetiba cantek ke tidak..mmm compius uolss...
anyway..good luck uolss..mak yakin ade ramai jantan nak kat uolss nanti..nanti akak bg catelog anak ikan uols leh pilih yer...